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National Child Abuse Prevention

National Child Abuse Prevention

April National Child Abuse Prevention Month

April is National Child Abuse Prevention Month.  The US Department of Health and Human Services has a website with a wealth of resources to help prevent child abuse and also to help parents deal with various stages of child development:

Here are a few highlights:

Babies:  For example, it is critical to bond with your baby during the first few years of life to help to ensure the growth of the baby’s body and mind.  Touching, affection, and holding your baby when she is fussing and crying for long periods is essential.  When changing diapers, feeding, or bathing your baby, look into his eyes, smile, and talk to your baby.

Toddlers:   When your toddler has a temper tantrum, try to direct your child’s attention to something else, give your child a choice in small matters, and praise your child when she shows self-control and expresses feelings with words.  Don’t you also lose control; remain calm and wait out the tantrum.  

School-age children:  School-age children mature unevenly.  They may still throw tantrums or need to be reminded to brush their teeth, for example.  They may get distracted easily and may be overly concerned about “fitting in.”  Model the behavior you want them to see.  Communicate with them with respect.  Talk with them about what you expect.  Offer support and understanding about issues with school and friends.  Talk with your children about values early on.

Teens:  Teens may spend less time with you and more with their friends.  They are likely craving independence, questioning rules and authority, testing limits, being impulsive, and making mature decisions sometimes but childish ones other times.  Many children’s brains don’t finish developing until the age of 25. Try to take advantage of routine activities to reinforce the connection between you and your teen; make room in your schedule for special times.  Have family meals (at least schedule some “required,” regular nights for such meals).  Get and stay involved.  Be interested.  Set limits.  Get to know your children’s friends.

For more insights, please visit the website listed above.

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About the Author: Yvonne Wonder

As the founder and managing director of Destination Sitters, LLC, a national hotel and event babysitting service, and the mother of two children, I strongly believe that family comes first. I personally needed babysitting when I moved to San Diego 14 years ago. Like most parents, I assumed there were standards for temporary babysitting; in reality, there are no state standards or licensing requirements for temporary babysitting. The idea for Destination Sitters was born! I wanted to Give Parents Peace of Mind® when traveling with their children, so I created strict screening requirements for the sitters we refer. There is nothing like the peace of mind that comes from getting great professional help to care for your children, especially when traveling away from home. I and my partners, along with our office staff, have that one goal in mind with everything we do. Through the years of working with children, I have been inspired to write three books, and this blog for parents’ and children’s wellbeing. I believe the best way to teach a child is leading by example, with love, honesty, integrity, compassion, perseverance, and personal responsibility. Learning these values and teaching children that all women and men are equal will encourage them to dream big to be anything they want to be! An entrepreneur for over 35 years, I previously spent years running a construction and design company with two offices in California and built million-dollar estates and remodeled existing ones. For three and half years, I was one of the primary designers on HGTV’s Curb Appeal. I have also been published in books, magazines and newspapers, and have been a featured designer in multiple showcase houses.

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